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1. Trauma responses in dementia may be misinterpreted as “behaviour”
Older women with dementia may react strongly to men approaching due to historical sexual assault triggers.
They may not be able to verbalise what is happening; responses are emotional and automatic, not deliberate misbehaviour.
Staff often suggest medication, rather than recognising trauma triggers.
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2. Mixed-gender dementia wards can create safety issues for traumatised women
Wards are commonly not gender-segregated.
Alternative placements (e.g., female-only units) may be helpful but can be impractical due to distance from family or loss of support
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3. Pressure to medicate rather than understand
Staff may request medication to manage behaviours that are actually trauma reactions.
The GP in the interview describes feeling ethically challenged when pressured to medicate.
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4. Sexual assault is vastly under-recognised in clinical settings
The GP sees sexual assault as underestimated and under-inquired about in general practice.
Disclosures often emerge indirectly, during appointments for UTIs, pelvic pain, or other unrelated issues.
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5. Shame and myths influence older women’s willingness to disclose
Women of all ages feel ashamed, as if they “should have prevented it.”
Myths about appearance and blame persist, even in older age.
Some women feel less safe when their appearance changes (e.g., losing weight).
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6. Older women may not disclose until they feel safe — sometimes years later
Many older women in abusive relationships cannot imagine an alternative, so they remain silent.
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7. Barriers to disclosure include housing, family dynamics, and finances
Residential aged care may feel like the only alternative, but is unaffordable for many.
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8. The 15-minute consultation model fails traumatised women
The GP notes that trauma work needs continuity of care, not task-based medicine.
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9. Health professionals often want to “fix” things — but must not remove autonomy
The GP reports learning from DV workers that pushing people to act (e.g., call a helpline) can remove their sense of control.
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10. Medical training largely ignores sexual assault and older women
University curricula provide minimal teaching on domestic violence and sexual assault.
Older women are not mentioned at all in the teaching this GP experienced.
Training is often biomedical, without context or trauma understanding.
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11. Older women experience sexual assault as deeply as any other age group
Even with cognitive impairment, older women feel shame, fear, terror, violation, disrespect, and loss of safety.
This can severely affect their physical health, chronic disease management, and wellbeing.
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12. Intergenerational trauma is common in care leavers
Trauma echoes through marriages, parenting, and even the next generation.
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